Anonymous whispered: Ok so I am seventeen years old and I've never had a boyfriend or anything and there's this guy I really like to the point where I can't even go to sleep at night. I'm just really confused though because I don't know if I like him because I'm lonely or if I actually have feelings for him! And if so how could I tell if he likes me back? He sits next to me in one of my classes and sometime I feel this electric energy between us and idk if that's just me making something from nothing
your for sure not making this up cause your lonely!! It sounds like you really like him and thats so cute. For sure talk to him and get to know him more because your an amazing girl that he would deffinatley like back. don’t be scared!!! xx
Anonymous whispered: Me and my boyfriend have been together 3 years but there is a three year age gap between us and he's only in grade 10. I've recently discovered I'm pregnant. And I haven't told anyone yet. I'm terrified to tell my family, my mom has told me I'm on my own if I ever did become pregnant. Because my boyfriend is so much younger the responsibility is huge to raise a kid. I already have a job and money saved up, so I was thinking I'd just like leave. But I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or not. Help?
Personally I think that you need to tell your mom and boyfriend because the longer you wait the worse their reactions will be. Your mom only said that as a joke, but in a time of such need of coarse she will be there to support you. Leaving your boyfriend is not a good way to handle the situation. You have to face reality, not run away from it.
Anonymous whispered: I met this guy from California on chat roulette a week ago, I live on the east cost on Canada. We have been talking and Skype for a week now. He said he's falling for me. He's told me Im beautiful and all this really sweet stuff. He said he would do anything to be with me, he' even move here. Im scared that I will get real feelings and nothing will come out of it. He already treats me like his girlfriend but it seems too good to be true. What do you think?
Personally I do not approve of online relationships because you really don’t know the person. This boy could be saying that he is someone that he’s not. I don’t know how old you are but most likely he won’t move so you have nothing to worry about.
Anonymous whispered: My best friend's boyfriend has cheated on her 4 times and she still wants to be with him. I told her she shouldn't go back to him, but all she keeps saying is "he says he'll change" and "he learned his lesson" meanwhile he said that the last 3 times. I mean I love her to death but she looks like an idiot going back to him. I just don't think he will change. What do you think?
I think its really sweet that you care about her this much. Trust me I ALWAYS try to give my friends advice and they hardly ever listen and i know how frustrating it is. Maybe tell her once more that you are strongly against her decision but if it makes her happy, she is still going to get back with him. If the same thing happens again hopefully she will realize that you were right, and she will listen to you the next time!
whispered: I have this group of friends who I've only been friends with for about a year. They all seemed to get along at first, but as the new school year progresses I've found them fighting more and more. They get worked up over the smallest things, won't talk to each other for days on end, and I can never keep track of who tolerates who. My birthday is coming up, and I really want to celebrate with all of them, but two of them started fighting again and I don't want it to be hostile. Help?
Personally I think you should talk to your closest friends in the group. Im are your not the only one feeling this way!!! My friends changed too as we moved into high school and its really hard, but it shows who your true friends really are. I think you can still celebrate your birthday with all of them, and I think you will have fun no matter what! I say just talk to a few of your friends about it:) xx
Anonymous whispered: i found out recently that my crush has a girlfriend and now im all sad, what do i do? D:
DONT WORRY ABOUT IT!!!! you are an amazing person who deserves so much better! Don’t waste tour time on this guy cause he’s not worth your valuable time. go out there and meet someone new who treats you right!! xx
whispered: I need boy advice.
of coarse! Wellll whats going on?
Anonymous whispered: Ok so I really like this guy who's 5years older than me (I'm 16, he's 21 ah ) and were really cute when were together like cuddles films kissing etc and we fucked but there isn't like a label for what we are if that makes sense? How do I ask him without sounding like creepy or obsessive? Idk D: help
You aren’t being creepy or obsessive!!! He clearly has the same feelings for you that you have for him so don’t be afraid! I think you can go for it because it sounds like you two have an adorable relationship:)
Anonymous whispered: This guy and i have gotten pretty serious this past year. nothing like marriage serious. It's illegal for us to be together so we're "together without dating" type thing. he went back to college and hasnt talk to me in 5 weeks. since we said bye. and before that he rarely talked to me for a month.. he ignores my messages and I can see he sees them he used to give the excuse he is too busy.. yet he makes statuses about watching football and sports.. so clearly he has time. im afraid of losing him
Hey love! This seems like strange behavior especially since you guys have become so close… I really think that you need to meet up with him and tell him your true feelings. It is probably just a lot of miscommunication and you two should really work it out. Tell him how your afraid of losing him because maybe he feels the same way, you never know!! Let me know how it goes:) xx
Anonymous whispered: Do you know a good way of getting rid of spots? Because I am v spotty and am like in love with my bestfriend so much but he doesn't want to jeopardise our friendship,idk what to do?:))
I dated my bestfriend and it was the biggest mistake ever. We had the best relationship but after we broke up we were so awkward, never talked and now i lost my best friend :( I’m not saying don’t date him, but think about it before you go for it, and when you make a promise not to be awkward after you break up, don’t expect it to be fulfullied. And the way you get him to like you is show him what he’s missing. Flirt with him and just keeo buttering him up!! Hope everything works out the way you want! xxx